3652 days (roughly)
That is the number of wonderful days that I have been married.This 26th was my tenth anniversary and looking back : I have absolutely no regrets and only great feelings about it .
All credit to my wife for putting up with a cranky , at times pesky guy like me and smiling right through! Let me tell you a little more .
Here are some of the important roles Hema plays for me .
There is another side to the whole deal ; it is not very easy to be 24x7 with one person unless the understanding and camaraderie are right up there and that is the key for a successful married life .
The other unique thing about your spouse is that he/she is the only person who is goin to go the full long haul with you and be there always .From that angle if your spouse does not vibe with you , you are in for it ! I have been extremely lucky to get the perfect foil for me as my spouse .I dunno how much of that is true from her point of view .But for me ; Life just got better and better and better after marriage .She has this uncanny knack to read my face and understand what went on the last 6 hours ! That saves a lot of talking and energy .She knows when I am pissed and plays down .She knows when I am wrong and plays up .Well , a fair mix of both !
They say that souls are created in pairs and the lucky ones meet and get married .I would like to think that I am one such lucky soul .
Down the line ; despite the fact that hereditary diabetes was holding her down and making life tough , she went through hell to give me the best gift so far ! My Son Hari ! I can't even think of life before Hari now .That is the impact he has had on our lives .
I must say that I am looking forward to atleast another 100 years of this !
Hema : u are the best !
All credit to my wife for putting up with a cranky , at times pesky guy like me and smiling right through! Let me tell you a little more .
Here are some of the important roles Hema plays for me .
- When I am angry - Pacifier
- When I am sad - Supporter
- When I am lost - Guide
- When I am winning - Fan
- When I am losing - Coach
- When I am crying - with me
- When I am smiling - with me
- When I am down - Motivator
- When I am confused - Friend
- When I need one - A shoulder
- When I am tired - A refresher
- When I am funny - the audience
- When I am gross - the punisher
- When I am over sleeping - the waker
- When I am undersleeping - the admonisher
There is another side to the whole deal ; it is not very easy to be 24x7 with one person unless the understanding and camaraderie are right up there and that is the key for a successful married life .
The other unique thing about your spouse is that he/she is the only person who is goin to go the full long haul with you and be there always .From that angle if your spouse does not vibe with you , you are in for it ! I have been extremely lucky to get the perfect foil for me as my spouse .I dunno how much of that is true from her point of view .But for me ; Life just got better and better and better after marriage .She has this uncanny knack to read my face and understand what went on the last 6 hours ! That saves a lot of talking and energy .She knows when I am pissed and plays down .She knows when I am wrong and plays up .Well , a fair mix of both !
They say that souls are created in pairs and the lucky ones meet and get married .I would like to think that I am one such lucky soul .
Down the line ; despite the fact that hereditary diabetes was holding her down and making life tough , she went through hell to give me the best gift so far ! My Son Hari ! I can't even think of life before Hari now .That is the impact he has had on our lives .
I must say that I am looking forward to atleast another 100 years of this !
Hema : u are the best !
posted by Shakthi @ 10:10 AM
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